Here's a lesson I learned 5 years ago, and again last spring, and once more today in the most definitive way - you can not love a person so much they get well. No amount of love will ever help that person if they don't love themselves and if they don't think they are worth loving.
I gave love until I couldn't anymore, until I had nothing left to give and it didn't make a difference.
But I didn't ever actually stop loving and now there is nowhere for this to go anymore.
I know how true your words are. It's painful to have to get to where you are. I hope things will improve for you in time and I am thinking of you although that is probably only worth about 17 cents!
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